How to turn a girl on over the internet ?

I joined a dating site after i split from my GF to boost my confidence :P, and a few girls have started to be very forward in what they want from me lol, i know what i think would turn them on but id rather know from other girls what to say to a girl if your in that situation, i cant exactly ask my sister or mum lol, and i dont have anyone else to ask, tried google but that didnt really help as most guides for that are written by men and i want a girls opinion, thx for reading and plz help me out :D